Randy Michael Day

BREWER— Randy Michael Day, 60, died unexpectedly August 19, 2026. He was born February 25, 1966, in Bangor, a son of Richard “Dick” and Jean (Clukey) Day.

Randy was a 1984 graduate of Old Town High School, where he was a standout three-sport athlete-gaining the nickname “Butkus”, competing in baseball, basketball, and football. Following high school, he enlisted in the United States Navy and proudly served as a Hospital Corpsman from 1986 to 1990. After returning home to Maine, he attended Husson University to pursue a career in nursing, where he also played lacrosse. He graduated with a Bachelors of Science in Nursing in 1998

Athletics remained an important part of Randy’s life well beyond his school years. He enjoyed playing softball and lacrosse and found great satisfaction in coaching and encouraging young athletes. He was active in his community, coaching his children’s teams and helping establish the Brewer Youth Lacrosse Club. His career as a nurse took him to communities throughout the United States, allowing him to care for others while experiencing different parts of the country.

Randy had many interests, but perhaps nothing brought him more enjoyment than sports, hunting, and spending time with his animals. He especially adored his Jack Russell, Max. He was a man who loved his family deeply and was, in every sense of the words, a protector and provider. Family gatherings were important to him, particularly time spent at camp on Beech Hill and together around the holidays.

Randy was never one to hide what he thought. He always spoke his piece, and with Randy, you never had to wonder where you stood. Those who knew him best understood that his love was always there—in the way he protected, provided for, showed up, and cared for the people he loved. He was an amazing dad!

He will be remembered for many things, including his legendary “Haunted Forest” at Halloween, which became a special part of his family’s traditions and a reflection of his ability to bring people together and create lasting memories.

To his military family, the Forever Brothers Red Dogs, he will always be remembered simply as “Doc.” His service, his brotherhood, and the bonds he formed with those who served alongside him remained an important part of who he was.

Randy is survived by his wife of 32 years, Melissa; his children, Ryan; Kassi and her companion, Lindy; and Kelsi and her companion, Taylor; his mother, Jean Day; his brother, Corey Day and his wife, Jennifer; niece, Kayla Estes and her husband, Casey; nephew, Wyatt Day; and his mother- and father-in-law, Hugh and Junita Drisko; brother-in-law Keith Drisko and companion Amy Cross and children Hagen Cross and Nyx Cross.

He was predeceased by his father, Richard “Dick” Day.

Family and friends are invited to a celebration of Randy’s life from 4:30–6:30 p.m. Tuesday, August 25, 2026, at Birmingham Funeral Home, 438 Main Street, Old Town. At 6:30 p.m., Navy Honors will be rendered, followed by prayers offered by Fr. Erin Donlon.